Interracial Intersection™ for Black Women

Cultural Nuances of Dating and Relating With Asian Guys

Interview with 龍歩ー亥ぇ暈具 for Interracial Intersection. What Asian ethnicities do you think are most open to interracial relationships? It really doesn’t matter when it comes to ethnicity. What matters is his upbringing and family environment. The more traditional his family…

Robin Thicke Says “Most White Men Won’t Understand You”

In a recent interview with Essence Magazine, white soul singer Robin Thicke, who has been married to actress Paula Patton for 18 years, was asked, “The media often tells black women that they’re better off dating white guys. What’s your…

Ignore The Bullies: Date Whom YOU Want

If you want to date men of all colors, then date men of all colors. If you want to date a particular group of men or a specific combination of groups – then do so. As one friend sums it…

Just An “Exotic Trophy”?

Hi. I am a 24 y/o African female raised for the entity of my life in the U.S. I grew up with a large interracial family mostly consisting of Lebanese and african mixture. I have dated all shades from white…

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52November 19, 2011
Black Bigots Setting Terms for OTHER Black People’s Interracial Relationships

Approximately four months ago, a 49-year-old woman sent me this unsolicited message out of the blue. I found her offensive. I found the exchange amusing. I tend to be African Centered, but i will not down a sister, who had…
6November 18, 2011
Online Dating: Explicit Sex Talk?

In my head we are best friends lol. Which seems fitting that you would be the person I ask for help, with what’s become a very sticky situation. Met this guy on match.com, we didn’t hit it off during first…
17October 30, 2011
The Intricate Art of Attraction

Written by Velour and Zeus for Interracial Intersection. Deep down you fear it’s hopeless; you will never meet your one true love. Some guys check you out – but very few ask you out. The ones who do hit on…
14October 30, 2011
It’s Never Too Late For Love!

I want to share two letters I received last week from two readers who are just coming to terms with their attractions. I hope they will be an inspiration to those of you who are still struggling with your feelings,…
15October 7, 2011
Hot & Heavy Interracial Office Romance Brewing Up Controversy

Dear Velour, I had the pleasure in growing up in Southern California and living the ultimate California Dream by growing up and living two blocks by the beach. I moved to a state where bka ‘The Mississippi of the West.’…
51September 18, 2011
Can Black Women in Interracial Relationships Stay Tied to Their Culture and Community?

Hello, I am a young white guy living in San Diego who finds black women very attractive and wants to marry one someday. However, have read a lot of blogs and comments on black women dating interracially, I am bugged…

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72September 4, 2011
Can My Features Attract Men Across the Color Line?

A black woman wrote to me recently that she’d heard all her life that she does not have features that can attract men of other colors, particularly white men. She was told by these people that her lips are too…
32May 28, 2011
Why Black Women Are So Attractive

This article was written by Zeus, administrator of The Social Gods, for Interracial Intersection. Growing up, I lived in the city all my life, and went to a public school. This was a blessing, because it allowed me to be…
39December 4, 2010
Why Be in an Intercultural Relationship?

Someone once asked, why be in an interracial relationship if I’m so proud of my culture? Leaving aside the fact that although most interracial relationships are intercultural, interracial does not necessarily mean intercultural (and vice versa) – here are some…
51November 28, 2010
How to Meet a Black Lady

(This article was written by Zeus of The Social Gods.) This article answers questions by a male reader. How can a decent, quality man who’s interested in an interracial relationship meet a classy, pretty black lady? How should he approach…
90August 21, 2010
Black Women: Do NOT Apologize for Your Preferences

The Extremes of Interracial Dating,” via Twitter. Its author laments the decision of some black people to date exclusively interracially in response to negative dating experiences with black people of the opposite sex. However, she does not stop there. Not…
43May 23, 2010
Black Women’s Guide to Meeting Asian Guys

This article was written for Interracial Intersection by SheRocks07. Men are Men… Black women who are attracted to Asian men often ask me how to meet and connect with them, “because those guys are known to be shy and don’t…
95April 16, 2010
Meeting and Dating (White) Men

Recently, I received this brief note from one of my readers: “I’m attracted to white men but sadly they are not attracted to me.” This is a concern expressed by a number of black girls and women who are interested…